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Wayyyyy back when I was an aspiring fetish photographer with no direct BDSM experience, I wandered by the booth of Breathe Toys at a major kink event. I had just attended an incredible demo on flogging by a woman named Midori and was truly inspired by what I saw. I knew this was going to be something I would end up trying at some point in the near future, though I wasn’t yet clear on exactly how to make that happen.

Among a sea of beautiful standard-sized floggers on display, there hung a giant one-off piece with exceptionally long falls and a sexy handle to match that looked as if it was inspired by a large, two-handed battle sword. It REALLY spoke to me, but without any hands-on experience (or anyone to practice on), I couldn’t justify the purchase just to use it as a photo prop. Moreover, I correctly assumed this behemoth may be a little unwieldy for a beginner. Still, it beckoned and part of me instantly regretted leaving it behind.

Nearly a year later, as a fledgling top with a number of successful impact scenes under my belt, I saw the very same flogger at a different event and knew this time I would make it mine. How many miles had it traveled to find its way back to me? I don’t know, but chances are it was quite a few based on how often Breathe sets up shop in the field. I spent every dollar I made as the photographer for that event (and then some) on that big, beautiful beast and never looked back. That flogger turned out to be extremely photogenic has since found its way into a LOT of my images. Even better, I’ve had several chances to use it for its intended purpose and it is a blast to play with.

All Breathe Toys are built for hard and serious use. Many are as beautiful to look at as they are fun to wield. Breathe’s floggers are stunners. Each is unique — unless, of course, it’s part of a matched pair. The handles are skillfully woven and are instantly recognizable from across the room. Perfectly balanced and made from fine leather, they beg to be held and admired almost as much as they beg to be used. Breathe’s finger floggers, while lacking pretty handles, use swivels with high-performance roller bearings that look cool and function even better.

Other Breathe toys are more understated in appearance. The aptly-named Bastard, for example, isn’t much to look at compared to the floggers, but it’s every bit as satisfying in its own wicked way. The Bastard is a 33-inch-long, 1.5-inch-wide, 1.5-pound mass of stacked leather straps. When it hits, it hits hard and can leave its victim quivering and breathless. It moves a bunch of flesh. It makes a BIG noise. It can — and should — leave some serious bruises, which is exactly what it was born to do. What’s more, if its target isn’t properly secured, it has the ability to send them flying. Fortunately for those not ready to face the Bastard, Breathe also makes a number of smaller and (slightly) more demure people beaters.

It’s worth taking a good look through the website at the entire lineup of gear because there are a lot of really nice things on there including a big assortment of floggers, spankers and a studded leather paddle that looks like pure evil. I have yet to get my hands on one but I KNOW will look great in photos. As you browse, it will become clear that everything on that site (and beyond since the site only shows what is in stock at the time) has been created and crafted with purpose and intent. There’s not a single product in the Breathe lineup that isn’t bad ass. Be warned: if you’re susceptible to making impulse purchases, you may find your first visit to the site a tad problematic. The good news is that, for the level of quality Breathe puts out, pricing is excessively fair and reasonable.

There’s a reason Breathe Toys creations are among the first I use as props in photos and in play. Yet another outstanding maker located in Oregon!

One of my very first Kink shoots involved a model who was tied up with her breasts squashed lovingly in a rather midlevel-looking breast vice wearing nipple clamps that were incorporated into a beautiful necklace. The vice had a ratchet that that made the creepiest noise ever as it was closed tight and the spikes, well, they added a whole other element to the equation (newer models are also set up for electro play too). I was hooked.

So when I went to KinkFest for the first time a few months later, I was super excited to find the Torrid Timber booth and the people who made these devices and show them our collaboration.

It was then I learned how many other beautifully-crafted things Torrid Timber made. Wood restraints, paddles unlike any I’ve seen, hand restraints, something to kneel on to make kneeling more comfortable, something to kneel on to make kneeling FAR LESS comfortable, things designed to torture cocks and balls (the horror), a cage and even a crazy elaborate wooden BDSM bed with a built-in stocks, hard points and a place to do suspension.

What I also didn’t know at the time was how extensively I’d end up using many of these items in my future work. The truth is, many of these objects photograph as well or better than leather, rope or metal counterparts in a variety of circumstances and they compliment leather or rope in many others.

Is it because wood is a natural material that speaks to us on a primal level? Is it because wood just makes sense in a place like Oregon? Is it because of the way wood feels? Or is it because of the way Torrid Timber takes the time and effort to create gorgeous work that is fun to use and fun to shoot. Probably all of those things.

Whatever it is, for photos and for play, Torrid Timber is almost always involved at some point.

One of the first lessons I learned as a fetish/BDSM photographer was that, when it comes to collars, cuffs, gags and other key elements, there is simply no substitute for quality. You MIGHT be able to get away with using a crappy flogger or whip in a shot, but no matter how beautiful the model or how hot the scene, a low-rent collar, harness or restraint will render perfection virtually unattainable.

Conversely, putting a very high-end collar on model can actually make an image come together. High-end kit can flip a switch in a model’s head and give them super powers. They understand the significance of what they are wearing and it shows. With a good enough collar, even a simple portrait can become highly erotic.

Discerning Specialist BDSM collar
Bold and Beautiful Utility Collar from Discerning Specialist


So, once it became clear that I’d be shooting BDSM and kink regularly, I began the quest for some of the finest leathersmiths in the business. As fate would have it, two of the three makers I found are right here in Portland. The other is in Canada. They are Church of Sinvention, Discerning Specialist and House of Wolfram. I use collars and restraints from one of these makers in almost every kink shoot I do, to the point where I have started referring to these companies ad the Knotty Photos Big Three.

Each take a very different approach to their craft in terms of styling and functionality, but their attention to detail, artistry and unique designs all set them apart as premium brands. Is there a best among them? I don’t think so. Each excel in different ways. Each provides me with a different look and, at this point, I always know which will work best a particular shot without really needing to think about it. All are hand crafted in North America using the best materials on the market.

Of course, quality comes at a price. You’re going to pay a lot more for a collar or play set from one of these companies compared to something you can get on Amazon or a lot of the Eastern European makers on Etsy. At first blush, they may seem similar, but when you compare them side by side, you realize there really is no comparison at all and that a lot of the cheap stuff is flat out junk.

Are they worth it?

Considering these are foundational elements of my work, they represent a massive value to me are more than worth the asking price. Even if you aren’t a photographer, if you’re going to collar someone important, you’re going to want to use the best you can afford. So if you have the money, a collar from one of these makers is totally worth it. If you don’t have the cash, the good news is there are plenty of great options out there, you need to be a lot more selective and, if possible, see what you are buying in person. For that, your best bet might be finding a small or local maker. I’ll be featuring some I’ve found in future posts.

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